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Why She Hates It, Why You Do It, and 6 Simple Ways to Make It a Non-Issue

Game Rant's Jonathan Poole writes: "I recently discovered that my beautiful wife doesn’t really like video games. So what’s a game-loving guy to do? Well, I decided to ask the experts."

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zagibu5035d ago (Edited 5035d ago )

Good article. I think the best way to make it a non-issue is involve her and explain it. Gaming IS very immersive, and while you're at it, any disturbance from outside is detrimental to the experience, even well intended or justified disturbance. If this is understood by both parties, the tips presented in the article should help indeed. It still remains a difficult task to juggle the time demands of a serious relationship and gaming. Most people eventually have to cut back on gaming time.

Some of the tips can also help get along with roommates, siblings or parents.

guitarded775035d ago

Yeah, I agree this is a good article. My wife is cool with me gaming because it makes me happy, but I also know that our relationship comes first... When I get home I'll grab a beer and play about 2 matches online... after that, we spend time together, watch TV, eat dinner or whatever. Later in the evening, if I want to game and we don't have any plans, I'm free to game for a couple hours. She has her own hobbies and I don't give her crap about them either, because I know it makes her happy. If she ever said to me that gaming was coming between us, I'd listen and adjust my schedule and my life to make her happy... relationships are all about communication, and anything that becomes a distraction to the overall communication, can become a problem... it's not just gaming.

UnSelf5035d ago (Edited 5035d ago )

i tried this. didnt wrk

its the equivalent to ur girl asking u to understand why she do some of the out of this world ish she does.

for example: have u ever been around a girl who texts THE ENTIRE TIME SHES WITH YOU?!!? same thing here

All we can TRY to do is understand. Thats what seperates the ignorant from the abstract.

my girl JUST recently accepted my gaming habits, and this is after 2 years.

Boody-Bandit5035d ago (Edited 5035d ago )

Depends on the person, relationship, responsibilities, etc.
When my kids were younger my gaming time was more limited but now that they are grown I can game pretty much when I want and as often as I want. My wife is pretty care free about it as long as I do my share around the house and get my work done. She even picks up most of my games for me on the way home from her work on the day they are released.

She has literally told me on several occasions that I should take the weekend off and go lock myself in the basement and game my ass off. She even makes dinner and brings it down to me. <- That is living! :)

No complaints here. Of course that tooks years of hard work, understanding and compromise to get where we are today in our relationship. Although she started it all. Her first gift to me was a NES system.

ZeroBlitz5035d ago (Edited 5035d ago )

Guess you've gotten past this stage, huh?
http://www.youtube.com/watc...

Boody-Bandit5035d ago

I don't even know where or how to begin to tell you just how close that was to me and in some ways still is. That's a funny video.

NYPunkster5035d ago

Tell her to shut the f**k up and get hobby? Seriously ladies there enough hours in the day to do it all so chill the f**k out or pack your bags and hit the road.

badz1495035d ago

she sometimes just like watching me playing and sometimes plays with me in games like LEGO and LBP. now that we just got our 1st baby, I made a deal with her that I'll watch the baby till like 2am while she sleeps. I play games mostly because Jr. sleeps most of the night and then she'll take my place watching for the babies while I go to sleep till morning and she plays game on FB most of the time because Jr. just wakes up for milk. so, we both got nothing to complaint.

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il-mouzer5035d ago

been married for over 3 years now, I also have a kid and I think that the real answer to stop your partner from complaining is having control, unfortunately when we were still dating and living together, my gaming hours were our biggest issues, thing was I only played for 3 hours a day (that might sound nothing but 3*7 is actually 21) so in just one week you'd have spent nearly one whole day playing videogames

personally I just quit there and then I do have those weekend in which I act as a complete hermit (especially when a long awaited game has been released) but in the end it's all about self control, being in a relationship isn't like living in your parent's house.

il-mouzer5035d ago

oh and the idea of actually including your partner in the game doesn't really work, you're just prolonging the discussion further - if on the other hand you want to be a hardcore gamer for life, then just stay single and have fun with your johnson :D

UnSelf5035d ago

make sure u use johnson & johnson for ur johnson

BeaArthur5035d ago

I used to have issues with my wife about this. As long as you can reach a common ground between play time and her time you'll be fine.

DuneBuggy5035d ago (Edited 5035d ago )

Ive never had a real problem with my wife on this issue.Out of respect for her, I often dont play untill her "bedtime" (im the night owl)..or when she decides to go to the bedroom and watch some crap she taped off Lifetime.
She has known since we met I love video games and wont be able to change that. Note to people getting into a relationship. If you dont like their smoking,drinking,video game addiction,etc...You cant "change them".Accept their vices or start a relationship with someone else.People will change when they want to and they are ready to.

CrAppleton5035d ago

After kids it gets easier to game. I have been married for 4 years and have 3 kids. My wife is a stay-at-home. So by the time the kids go to bed, she's ready too. So just game after everyone goes to sleep, and learn to live with a lack of sleep yourself. I game from 8pm to 2am at times and wake up at 4am to go to work. It's just something that you'll have to do after the family is taken care of.

DelbertGrady5035d ago

As long as you don't play all the time I don't see the problem. If she can't accept that you have other interests than being with her, perhaps it's time to find a new partner? Unless you are p*ssywhipped or the type that wants to date a mother figure, of course.

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Discover our top video game adaptations of popular board games, from Bloodbowl to Wingspan & get your board game friends into video games!

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EKWB reportedly plagued with financial disarray many gaming pc's left without parts

EK Cooling allegedly has slipped itself into a hot soup of seemingly endless financial woes, where it has not paid its staff, suppliers, and contractors for many months as the company is facing liquidity problems and a surplus of inventory left unsold, stuck in the warehouse for a more extended period. Gamers Nexus investigated these claims made by former and current personnel, where he found trails of unpaid bills lasting as long as three to four months and unpaid raises that accumulated for almost a year.

EK Water Blocks has two entities—a Slovenian-based headquarters and a US-based subsidiary, EK Cooling Solutions. Steve narrated the series of events in detail, stating that the company was reportedly irresponsible and negligent regarding payment. Consequently, partners and employees are forced to share the burden of alleged mismanagement. It all begins with its extensive range of products, leading to a surplus of goods. EK has over 230 water blocks, 40 liquid cooling kits, 85 reservoirs, 40 pumps, 73 radiators, and 212 miscellaneous accessories.

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Yes this is not about video games directly but indirectly this will impact the pc gaming/workstation space hard.

This company is massive one of two in the water cool space so if it goes poof then thousands out there have no spare parts or half built computers.

SO yeah i know not about a video game but think of it as amd leaving the pc space but this is ekwb that could be leaving water cooling in the pc space

Jayz2cents a supporter of there products also has issues
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Giblet_Head1d 4h ago (Edited 1d 4h ago )

As someone that has built a watercooling rig. EK is big, but there's so many numerous watercooling part companies out there. EK's stuff isn't exactly amazing quality for the price compared to others either, it's just ok. Much like Corsair. The impact would be negligible long term. For perspective the majority of my parts are XSPC, at most I use EK for my gpu waterblocks and fittings. Both easily replaceable.

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Indie hit Dredge is getting its own movie adaptation

Rob Webb of KnowTechie writes: We're still waiting on the details, but this video game adaptation promises to be seriously creepy.

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