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The New Tomb Raider Saved This Teenager’s Life

"The first time Draven Miltenberger played Tomb Raider was in 1999. He was three years old. His home life might have been tumultuous thanks to how often he moved, but that was his constant: Tomb Raider.

"My family couldn't pry it out of my hands," he wrote in a blog post that described his love for the game. After reading it, I decided to reach out to him. "It hooked me instantly," Miltenberger, now seventeen, told me in an email.

The abuse started a few years after he first found Lara Croft. First, it was with his dad. Then his dad left for the National Guard, but that didn't matter. His stepmother continued the abuse. "She was more vicious I think," Miltenberger told me in an email. Eventually she'd take him to a runaway shelter. He was still a kid." - Patricia Hernandez

jc485734056d ago (Edited 4056d ago )

i do believe games can save people or at least help them.

"what's wrong son?"

"me sad."

"well, pick a game."

They're better than movies when you have the freedom to "guide" the character as if you were guiding yourself.

Irishguy954056d ago

Games are my favorite medium...because they add everything great about the entertainment industry into one. Imo

hellvaguy4056d ago (Edited 4056d ago )

I guess escaping to a virtual world is one way to deal with abuse issues. Seems to me this method is more like putting on a band-aid to cover up a festering, infected wound to me. Also I have to wonder if the chosen game to escape reality happened to be GTA. What words of wisdom from this game would this teenager have been listening to then?

I would hope that the better way would have been to go a teacher and report the abuse. They do have people in place to remove abused kids and punish adults who are guilty of doing that.

DeltaCanuckian4055d ago

I think the point of the article isn't that he used Tomb Raider as an escape when he was being abused, more so that it's motivated him to get his life on track. Games do offer that escape for people dealing with shit who feel they have no other options, I know they helped me when I was bullied through elementary and middle school.

It's not a silver bullet, but it's definitely something that helps so don't discount it because of that.

OhMyGandhi4056d ago

Games certainly offer escapism for those in dire straights, but I must agree with hellvaguy, it will not help SOLVE the issue, but rather keep it to a simmer in the short term.

AusRogo4056d ago

I never had a bad home life, but gaming has helped me a lot. Everyone needs something to keep there mind off shit. And gaming is my escape

Draco4056d ago

"He was three years old." Sure.

Valenka4055d ago

I played the original Tomb Raider when I was four years old. I didn't understand what was going on at all and all I really did was jump around and shoot at nothing, but I still played it. The article didn't say he was a master at the game at three years old or that he grasped the game's concept.

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Tomb Raider I, II, III Remastered Review – To The Freezer ⏐ Nerdy Bird Games

Tomb Raider I, II, III Remastered is available now on PC, Nintendo Switch, PlayStation 4 and 5, Xbox One, and Xbox Series X/S. Lara Croft is back in a classic remaster of the original PlayStation 1 hit title. Is the remaster any good though?

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The Best Tomb Raider Games Ranked

We've gone on many adventures with Lara Croft. With another reboot in the making, Wealth of Geeks felt it was a good time to go down the nostalgia rabbit hole and remember the best of those tomb-raiding thrills.

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Sonic188155d ago (Edited 55d ago )

I do agree that Tomb Raider Angel of Darkness was the worse one 😂 I remember playing some of it and I took it back. That game was just awful in every way. I bought it used at gamestop and glad they had that 7 day return policy for used games 😂

Pyrofire9555d ago

Would it be worth saying why?

ZeekQuattro55d ago

Simple. He's been hating on the Tomb Raider reboots for years. I can't imagine seeing them at the top of a best TR game list let alone being on the list in general sitting well with him because of it.

-Foxtrot55d ago

Zeek

“Hating”

No no, just pointing out how TR mutated into a generic action adventure game losing the appeal of what it once was when it was more about puzzles and platforming over going Rambo, slaughtering waves of enemies

But hey, continue being a dick and speaking about me like I’m not going to see the comment.

MeatyUrologist55d ago

Foxtrot, I'm curious if you have played the most recent games. Sure the 2013 reboot was hugely focused on combat, but each follow up became less and less about combat to the point where outside of a few large scale story missions I don't even remember combat being a part of shadow of the tomb raider. Shadow was so puzzle focused it actually was a bit much for me and I love the TR puzzles.

I still feel like Rise was the best of the series and I was a huge fan of the originals. To me it struck the perfect balance of exploration, platforming, puzzles, and combat. Not saying your opinion is wrong I'm just curious what you think they should have done different. Games do need to evolve somewhat to stay relevant. Would you prefer small linear jumping platform levels like the original?

RavenWolfx55d ago

I would agree Rise for 1 and the reboot as 2. Shadow is a bit high, though.

Sonic188155d ago (Edited 55d ago )

I think Shadow wasn't even develop by crystal dynamics. I thought it was the worse in the new trilogy

Pyrofire9555d ago

That's right. Shadow was developed by Eidos Montreal who who went and made Marvels Guardians of the Galaxy next. (Great game)
Meanwhile after Rise of the Tomb Raider, Crystal Dynamics made Marvels Avengers. (bad game)

MeatyUrologist55d ago

Agrees. First two are correct but Shadow should be around 5-6.

terstomp55d ago

For me, Legend should be alot higher (along with the other two ). Shadow, I enjoyed it, but has too much has fluff, as modern games tend to do. Playing the remastered series, and apart from the controls, is very good.

jznrpg55d ago

I really enjoyed the first 2 games, Legend and the first of the reboots and the rest I didn’t get into so I never finished.

robtion55d ago

Completely subjective list. I really liked Underworld, I preferred Lara's design. That said I loved the horror/uncharted feel of the reboot. I think all the TR games have strengths and weaknesses. None are objectively better in every way.

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The Best Video Game Reboots of All Time

Like the film or television industry, the world of gaming has seen its fair share of reboots over the years. While some of these video game reboots have had

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